I have a friend going through a situation:
She is in her 20's and is pretty sure the man she thought was her father is not her father. They look nothing a like and have nothing incommon.
Her mom dated a guy from highschool for a very long time and when that ended they went seperate ways and she met her "father" but the guy from highschool has always been around since her mom and her "father" split up. The guy from highschool has a daughter and there is a resemblance between my friend and his daughter.
She isn't sure she wants to find out, she thinks that she would be really mad at her mom because her "father" was never around but he would support her finacally and the guy from highscool was always around but only as a friend so if he really was her father she would have missed out on all of the father/daughter things.
Would you want to know? What can I tell my friend so that she sees it differently? She told me she would probably only want to find out later on when they have passed.