*******UPDATE-- sorry I haven't replied to anyone. My phone died and I cried myself to sleep earlier. Thank you ladies for the kind words . She called me back and told me she is evicting us and putting the house up for auction (we rent a house from her). So now me, dh, and our four kids have to find a place to live. Idk what to do.
EDIT! I LOVE HOW SOME OF YOU ASSUME THAT WE DON'T PAY RENT! We pay rent and all of our bills WITHOUT PA! The only reason we ever rented from her is bc her and my step dad needed income. My step dad got diagnosed with parkinsons and couldn't work. So stop assuming shit!