Do I tell her that her daddy isn't her daddy.. Or about the other baby?
Her bio James has had many opportunities to be a father and failed multiple multiple times to the point where my child's life was put in danger and that's why the visits stopped. I try at least twice a year to reconnect with him and see if he would like to get to know our daughter and start the process of it all and get no where with him. He recently asked me through text to give up all of his parental rights. I tried to talk to him about that and explained to him what that all ment... With no response.
We recently found out that he is expecting a second child.... I feel weird knowing about it and not telling her but I don't think she would fully grasp it all or understand why she isn't going to see that baby but sees her two brothers from my DH or understand that her daddy(my DH) is not her real daddy.
I want her to know the truth, I just want to do it when the time is right and it won't hurt her :((
When do I tell her??!!!