My 9 yr old Daughter Told Her Friend's about Sex EDIT in red
So a friend called and told me that her daughter told her that my girl told her and another 8-9 yr old about sex and how it happens. I asked her about it and after refusing to tell me for a while it comes out that she got the info from her sisters science book.
I'm upset that my 14 year old shared this with a 9 yr old and that the 9 yr old went and told her friends
Now my friends (the other 2 girls' moms) are distant and I think they're afraid of letting their daughters play with mine.
I talked till I was blue about how we don't share these things and how she should talk to me about this stuff.
*EDIT* Ok I'm not upset that she knows now, I'd have preferred she'd learn from me and later on. I was just upset that her sister shared that with her and that she told the other girls. Here where I live in the Middle East it's not taught till 8th grade and people wait to tell their kids details until they are a bit older than 9.