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My 9 yr old Daughter Told Her Friend's about Sex EDIT in red

Anonymous
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So a friend called and told me that her daughter told her that my girl told her and another 8-9 yr old about sex and how it happens. I asked her about it and after refusing to tell me for a while it comes out that she got the info from her sisters science book. 

I'm upset that my 14 year old shared this with a 9 yr old and that the 9 yr old went and told her friends


Now my friends (the other 2 girls' moms) are distant and I think they're afraid of letting their daughters play with mine.


I talked till I was blue about how we don't share these things and how she should talk to me about this stuff. 

WWYD? 


*EDIT*  Ok I'm not upset that she knows now, I'd have preferred she'd  learn from me and later on.  I was just upset that her sister shared that with her and that she told the other girls.  Here where I live in the Middle East it's not taught till 8th grade and people wait to tell their kids details until they are a bit older than 9. 

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 11, 2014 at 1:25 PM
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kbutton24
by Mrs.Sima on Apr. 11, 2014 at 1:26 PM

?

ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Apr. 11, 2014 at 1:26 PM
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My son has done that
He corrects the bad info they have heard too.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 11, 2014 at 1:33 PM

BUMP

autodidact
by Snarknado on Apr. 11, 2014 at 1:34 PM
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I got nothin', I don't keep this info from my kids.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 11, 2014 at 1:35 PM
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It's not just that, she went and told people who's parents weren't ok with it.

Quoting autodidact:

I got nothin', I don't keep this info from my kids.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 11, 2014 at 1:36 PM
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Uhm.... So?? Heaven forbid kids know the truth...
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 11, 2014 at 1:36 PM
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What's done is done now. I'd call the two moms back up and explain the situation. It's a reasonable mistake. Have a talk with both of your girls-problem solved.
peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Apr. 11, 2014 at 1:36 PM
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I can get why the other parents may be upset, but I would be more than ok with my 9 year old knowing the basics of sexuality

jeda1429
by Silver Member on Apr. 11, 2014 at 1:37 PM
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oh well, maybe the other parents need to get over it? sex is a part of life.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 11, 2014 at 1:37 PM
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Your upset that your 14 year old had to be your 9 year olds mother. yeah that would be upsetting .

You should have told your child yourself a long time ago. and you should have taught her about modesty, privacy, and how she does not need to share this information with the other children.


Had YOU been the parent, this wouldnt have happened.

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