Is this unreasonable? My sister let's her kids have sleepovers with my kids here and I don't like it
My sister graciously agreed to let us move in, even though she was hesitant to. My nieces and nephew attend college or work nearby and live at home, but my sister doesn't have any real rules for them because she thinks they're 24, 22 and 21.
Which bring me to this: she let's them have "pregame" parties at the house with their friends, all of them drinking before going out to the bars. My girls and I can only stay in the bedroom when this is going on, and they sometimes stay for hours, but they can hear them being rowdy.
My biggest problem is that she lets them come home after drinking and sleep over with their boyfriends and girlfriend. So, my kids see them having these sleepovers and there's the potential and they wake up one night and find a possibly drunk stranger in the bathroom. I hate it.
I tried to talk to my sister about it and she blew up at me. She said if I didn't like the way she runs her house, I can get out, and that frankly she's counting the days. She also said it hasn't been easy on her kids having mine here, and I had no idea they or she felt that way
Was I being so unreasonable to ask her to curb these activities while my girls, who are only 10 8 And 5 Are here?