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I don't want ds's brother around.

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Ds and his brother have only seen each other a handful of times in their lives and I didn't use to have a problem with it but brother's mom and I don't get along and I feel completely disrespected by her on multiple occasions and I don't want anything to do with her and she refuses to let her kid visit unless she's there too. She used to be OK with the father picking him up and bringing him over, but she won't even allow that now and I won't allow her in my house or around me.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:13 PM
Replies (11-20):
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:22 PM
I will not. You don't even know what you're telling me to get over.

Quoting Anonymous:

Something you need to get over so your son can have a relatinoship with his brother.

1TallMamaCA
by Gold Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:22 PM
Does dad have no rights?
Howardx5
by Platinum Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:24 PM


Quoting Texor:

This is your husband's child? 

Why the hell are you involved in this at all?  This is between them.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:25 PM
I'm not. It's quite simple. He can see the child all he wants but his mother will not be allowed in my home or around me in a private setting. I have nothing to do with the visiting between them, just allowing her in my home or around me.

Quoting Texor:

This is your husband's child? 

Why the hell are you involved in this at all?  This is between them.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:30 PM
His father has nothing to do with this. If she would let her kid visit without her it wouldn't be an issue but she will not come into my house and she is not welcome around me in a private setting.

Quoting randi1978:

Suck it the fuck up and let the kid visit his father and sibling.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:32 PM
He does have visitation. This has nothing to do with him seeing the kid, just the kid's mother being around me.

Quoting Bluerose1482:

Is this your husband's child?  Why doesn't he have visitation?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:33 PM
Not really. Visitation is at their discretion.

Quoting Kaybean: What do you mean she won't allow with the father picking him up and dropping him off? It's not up to her. Is there a custody agreement in place?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:34 PM
If not allowing her in my house is childish, so be it.

Quoting Sparklepants747:

Petty petty petty. Grow up.

Bluerose1482
by Platinum Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:35 PM

So, your husband has court-ordered visitation, but bm says that he can't go to your house without her?  That makes zero sense to me.  

Quoting Anonymous: He does have visitation. This has nothing to do with him seeing the kid, just the kid's mother being around me.
Quoting Bluerose1482:

Is this your husband's child?  Why doesn't he have visitation?


mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:35 PM

*slowly backs out of this post*

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