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I don't want ds's brother around.

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Ds and his brother have only seen each other a handful of times in their lives and I didn't use to have a problem with it but brother's mom and I don't get along and I feel completely disrespected by her on multiple occasions and I don't want anything to do with her and she refuses to let her kid visit unless she's there too. She used to be OK with the father picking him up and bringing him over, but she won't even allow that now and I won't allow her in my house or around me.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 12, 2014 at 1:13 PM
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by Gold Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 5:25 PM

I may have missed it but how old r these children?

by Anonymous 11 on Apr. 12, 2014 at 5:30 PM
Not paying child support. Doesn't want to change diapers. Won't get a court ordered schedule that would fix the issue you have.
Sorry, but hubby sounds like the biggest issue here.

Quoting Anonymous: No.

Quoting Bluerose1482: Is he paying child support?  Quoting Anonymous: Because he doesn't like changing diapers and ds is used to being bf so he loses his patience trying to feed him when he won't take a bottle.

Quoting Bluerose1482: Why can't he take your son when he goes to visit your step-son?Quoting Anonymous: He won't take her back to court. I've already told him he needed to and he says that he's not making it a legal issue.

Quoting Bluerose1482: Perhaps your husband needs to revisit the court.  Unless their a good reason that visitation at your house should be supervised, your husband's child should be allowed to visit his father at his house and get to know his sibling.Quoting Anonymous: They don't follow the courts suggested visitation schedule so their visits are at their discretion. There's no court order saying when and how long.

Quoting Bluerose1482: So, your husband has court-ordered visitation, but bm says that he can't go to your house without her?  That makes zero sense to me.  Quoting Anonymous: He does have visitation. This has nothing to do with him seeing the kid, just the kid's mother being around me.

Quoting Bluerose1482:

Is this your husband's child?  Why doesn't he have visitation?

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