For starters, no this is NOT a troll post!! I am aware that I am most likely going to get some stupid ass responses, but I am really hoping that someone may have some advice on what I should do.
Dh got pulled over on the way to the store and got two tickets. He came home and realized they did not give him his i.d. back, so we rode back up to ask the officer about it together. When dh got out and went to talk to the cop the cop went off on him and started yelling and cussing at him. He then told dh to get his ass back in the car and take his ass back home. Dh said nothing, he tossed his hand up knowing he had no win and walked back to our vehicle. As he was getting in he stated-without yelling or cussing!-that "it's okay, I know what this is about and I want you to know I'm proud to be a black man." (To clarify why he made this comment we have had some very severe problems due to being an interracial couple here and the police have been involved with it) He shut the door, buckled his seatbelt and was fixing to pull off when the cop yelled for him not to go anywhere. He then got on his radio and less than a minute later 2 other cops showed up. He slammed dh into our truck several times with my children watching and crying. Dh was not resisting or even arguing with the cop, so there was no reason whatsoever for this. One of the other officers present even acted uncomfortable with how dh was being treated. He was arrested for "disorderly conduct". How is stating that you are proud of your race disorderly conduct?!?!?! This is not right and I am not sure what to do. Any helpful advice?? I am so upset and mad as hell right now! Tickets were for registration/tag....though not sure why that matters so much....the tickets are not the issue and not that big of a deal.