My kids have state testing this week. My ds2 has 2
baseball games that last until 930 at night. I told dh we would each go to one game ao the other 2 kids could stay at home and go to bed on time. Ds3 could go or not go since he is 3 and loves watching his brother play. I went to last night's game. I talked to dh at 6 and he said he would be here in a few. He wasn't home at 7 when I left. I called and asked where he was and he wouldnt say he finally said he said he went for a beer and appetizers with a friend. He was leaving. I left ds1 and dd at home. Dh didn't get home until 830. He never called the kids, ds1 called him. I was not happy. I got home at 930 and ds1 hadn't had dinner yet. I was not happy. I asked him why he chose the night we had things planned out and he just couldn't understand why I was mad. He wouldnt answer my questions and ended up telling me all I do is bitch and that is why I am a bitch. He got his stuff packed and said the first part of his plan was starting and he was going to stay with his parents for awhile. My kids ended up going to bed late they have big tests today and I was just supposed to be happy about all of this. He has huge issues with alcohol. We have all asked him to stop drinking..