Im just gonna give it time. Most of the replies said to leave him. The fact of the matter is we have kids. If both of us is really going to try working it out then its better to try not only for ourselves but our children.
thank you for all the replies.
My ex and I have 1 kid together and I have another son from a previous relationship. Hes daddy to both of them. We were together 3 years off and on. We broke up in feb and i moved out the 1st of march.
March 22nd we decided to work things out. Were not together but were seeing how things go. Heres the problem: I feel since were working things out that we should committed to one another until one or both of us decide to end it completely. He disagrees and says he doesnt have to be committed to me because were not together.
The way i see it is that were working things out and since he doesnt want to commit to me hes free to see and screw other people.
Am i wrong? I have been committed since we starting working things out. I stopped seeing and talking to others. Im not trying to control or be clingy. He lives with his parents and i live with our boys in our own place. He only comes over on the weekends.
Am i wrong for feeling this way? Ive tried talking to him about it. Im not sure what to do now.
Please no bashing.