Well that's too bad:) I want no visitors at the hospital and that means no waiting room worriors either.I'm not calling anyone until babe is born. I might negotiate with hubs that his mother and grandmother can come for a very short visit our last day in the hospital but that is all. I don't want any visits at home until I feel like we had time to bond as a family and I feel ready min 2 weeks. Inlaws have a problem with this they want to play pass the baby and mil is making pa comments about how I'm not going to be able to breastfeed so I should just feed her formula so she could have alone time with baby. Barf! Although I don't have a problem with her no fucking body but me and dh will have alone time with her until I feel comfortable (maybe when she starts talking) and that's creepy and fucking insulting to feel entitled to somebody's newborn. It also pissed me off when she started commenting on how she couldn't breastfeed her first three so of course I won't be able to"/ ASSHOLE. My family doesn't dare boundary stomp and I'm thankful for that but being that this is mil first grandchild and gmil first great grandchild they hopped on the baby crazy train and idk how to get my point across while still being polite because my dh is a unicorn. But if anybody over steps any of my boudaries I'm going to have to chew them the fuck out and put em on TO. If anybody tries to get in on the birth I'm calling security.