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Did I marry a racist?? *edit w/pic *edit again

Anonymous
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I've been with my husband for 8 years. I think maybe he's gotten bitter over time. He used to be super open minded... now he's saying things that surprise me. I think he's become racist. Just comments he makes about other races. He uses a sarcastic tone but I think he's serious. He ordered a confederate flag and hung it in our front window. He says it's because his family is from the south. I've tried to ask him about it but he just says something sarcastic and then changes the subject. WWYD??

*yea I know what the confederate flag means. It was still random.

*this post has turned into this huge debate over the confederate flag. Everyone seems to either being telling me to leave him (which is absurd) or fighting over the flag. So I'm going to back out slowly and let you girls do your thing.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:02 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:03 AM
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he's always been one if that's the case. he's just letting it show now.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:04 AM
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You don't think people can become racist?

Quoting Anonymous: he's always been one of that's the case. he's just letting it show now.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:06 AM
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I would be ashamed to live in a house with a confederate flag in the window . It screams racist 

JoanahLee
by Gold Member on Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:07 AM
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No way in hell would I fly a confederate flag in my front window.  Take that shit down and tell your husband to work on his issues. 

onethentwins
by Platinum Member on Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:07 AM
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I'd tear that flag down and burn it. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:07 AM
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White trash!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:08 AM
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It's not the only thing it symbolizes.

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I would be ashamed to live in a house with a confederate flag in the window . It screams racist 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:09 AM
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You came to that educated conclusion based off what?

Quoting Anonymous: White trash!
BrittSam2011
by Platinum Member on Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:09 AM
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I'd be taking that flag out of the window, I don't think so.

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AJmoon
by Silver Member on Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:10 AM
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My husband has a confederate flag hanging..
He's jot racist at ball tho.
He has a black brother, and they are best friends.
It is odd tho
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