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bm issue vent.

Anonymous
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My ss is 4, my youngest ds is 2. Now bm know ds is deathly allergic to nuts. Our house is nut free. We asked her nicely of morning of exchange (50/50 8am switch) she could not do peanut butter in our clothes (she never sends him in her clothes). That's all because she won't brush his teeth ("toothpaste is toxic").. last three exchanges she's fed him peanut butter toast and brough him with it caked on his face, and hands. Even in his long hair. This is ds safe place. Our home is it, only real nut free zone. So he can be a carefree toddler.

Seriously.. why?

Atleast wash his face and hands.

So we do bath time, teeth brush and outfit change and shoes. It sucks. Something so simple to be vendictive about.

Vent over.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 21, 2014 at 1:09 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 21, 2014 at 1:13 PM
That's really shitty of her. I can't imagine hating my ex enough that I would put his child at risk.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 21, 2014 at 1:13 PM

Obviously your DS is not deathly allergic. She is not buying it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2014 at 1:14 PM
Dr, blood test and an epi pen say other wise.



Quoting Anonymous:

Obviously your DS is not deathly allergic. She is not buying it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 21, 2014 at 1:15 PM

How incredibly heartless.  I wonder if she could be charged if something were to ultimately happen to your son.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2014 at 1:16 PM
I don't get it. Honestly. I mean this is ds house too. He has a right to be safe in his home too.

Dh has asked her why, and she just says " oh well I fed him breakfast, wash him". And drives off.

Its sad.

Quoting Anonymous: That's really shitty of her. I can't imagine hating my ex enough that I would put his child at risk.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 21, 2014 at 1:16 PM

 By your own admission your SS showed up 3 different times caked in peanut butter. Is your DS still alive?

Quoting Anonymous: Dr, blood test and an epi pen say other wise.
Quoting Anonymous:

Obviously your DS is not deathly allergic. She is not buying it.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2014 at 1:17 PM
I don't know, probably not since we can bathe him.

I just don't get why though.

Quoting Anonymous:

How incredibly heartless.  I wonder if she could be charged if something were to ultimately happen to your son.

KenneMaw
by Gold Member on Apr. 21, 2014 at 1:18 PM

She is just being vindictive.  It is sad that she is willing to endanger a child because she can't get over that her ex has a new family.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2014 at 1:19 PM
Straight to bath no contact with ds till after. Clothes straight in a bag, straight to the washer. Shoes in it too.

Then dh does the same, and cleans the bathroom. Nice right?



Quoting Anonymous:

 By your own admission your SS showed up 3 different times caked in peanut butter. Is your DS still alive?


Quoting Anonymous: Dr, blood test and an epi pen say other wise.
Quoting Anonymous:

Obviously your DS is not deathly allergic. She is not buying it.


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2014 at 1:19 PM
Oh... I just realized its the bold bitch anon who just argues with everyone.nvm

Quoting Anonymous:

 By your own admission your SS showed up 3 different times caked in peanut butter. Is your DS still alive?


Quoting Anonymous: Dr, blood test and an epi pen say other wise.
Quoting Anonymous:

Obviously your DS is not deathly allergic. She is not buying it.


 

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