im starting to hate family holiday get together**UPDATE
They trash my house every freaking time. Use all the dishes...pack up all the leftovers for themselves. Use ALL the plates and NEVER offer to bring anything or help clean up after. I love my sisters but with twelve people nine being adults its no so much to ask to help clean up their mess or gasp put away food when they take it out. I love my sisters and we actually have a good time together. But if it wasn't for my mom insisting on having large family get togethers I wouldn't do them at all
Today was my moms birthday I took some of yalls advice and when I invited them over i gave them pretty specific jobs. I did a baked potato bar and told them to bring their favorite toppings also I asked one to pick up paper plates and one to bring cups. Not asking much or so I thought lol one sister brought bread and the other brought soda...well that didn't work out very well. So here I am again busting my butt to clean for my grandparents who are coming in tomarrow. Every dish is dirty again and I can barely stand due to a hip injury I got two days ago. For mothers day im having SO send me out of town where no one can find me. .