I do not let dd to play with her friend anymore because was sexually abused by her grandfather. The reason is she told all the girls at dd sleepover party the sexual details about it. So I had to call all the moms and explain what happen. I was mortified! My kids have had the "talk" but I had to explain in more detail about sexual abuse. The family of the abused girl called me one day and talked me what had happen to her . They asked me to not exclude her from my dd life. And I didn't until this happened. I just cannot allow this girl back in my home. I feel horrible about it but she clearly needs help. She has been abused and now lost a friend but I have to worry about my kids. Would you do the same thing ??