That's what my best friend said. I was violently raped and assaulted a week ago but he didn't cum, he couldn't or something but I was fighting him pretty hard anyway. She said ""if he didn't cum, then it's not rape." Say what?!? I didn't get the memo that he has to cum in order for it to be considered rape. That's why I choose not to talk about it but my doctor though it'd be a good idea, for me to talk about it instead of keeping it bottled up. I regret saying anything to her. I didn't go in depth or talk about everything that happened.