if you were on the fence about having baby number 3 leaning towards no and then had baby number 3, do you regret it? or are you really happy that you decided to have them?
i am in this position. i dont feel complete with 2 kids, but i am really scared about having another kid for financial reasons, and i am not really a baby person.
i love my to kids sooooooo much i feel like i have so much love to give another kid, i feel like 3 would be complete..but all i can think of now are cons
-all the newborn crying and sleepless nights
-already have 2 healthy kids, do i want to risk having another kid who may not be?
-we would need a bigger car probably and house...but our lease is up in december and we wanted to move anyways
-i can think of 4 different familes that had a third kid and their third kid was the hardest and neediest of them all
so please, just curious, i know most if not everyone sees their kids as a blessing, but honestly, go anon if you need to, do you wish you would have stopped at 2?