so...............about 13 years ago i asked my husband what he likes/loves about me? his answer was " youre a good mother and you hold down a job". that always made me feel weird. we stuck it out (though good and bad). today i ask him, again, what he likes about me? he answered "i will have to think about such a complicated question like that". i said "you dont know off the top of your head what you actually like about me?". we sat in semi silence for a while. now he is in the shower.
we have been together over twenty years. we get along great. what would you do?