I have 2 kids from 2 different men and as soon as guys hear that, they either run for the hills or ignore it and just want sex from me. I am not a who're. I'm just no good for relationships it seems. I had a good life with baby daddy number 2 til he unexpectedly passed away. I never married. I'm 30 and women around me are taking the plunge and I'm happy for them. I admit it does suck I have to give up on men so early in my life and go celibate for that matter but it is what it is. They say most people have at least been married once, well that will never be me. I finally accepted to be ok with that and just be happy I am a mother and I'll never be alone. When my kids are grown, I'll be in my mind 40s and men don't want an old menopause hag so I'll consider buying birds than cats.
I was approached by a nice guy at work but unfortunately he was married and I kindly turned him down. If he was single,I'd probably still would turn him down cause he'd just want me for sex. I have trust issues with men since I've been cheated out of a good life as a complete family. But I have to keep telling myself I already am fulfilled because I have a good job and I have kids that love me and don't need a man. Could anyone relate or share anything that it is possible to go with life just a mom and a hard worker,never a wife, no more boyfriends?