I am the gf of a man that's going to be married soon
My bf and I have an open relationship and he is also a swinger...he plays house with his soon to be wife. She's aware* of the fact that he has a gf. Buuuut it's a kinda don't tell don't ask kinda thing. He and his wife were in a open relationship and she used to swing for 5 years, She got tired of him and his lifestyle because he told her he would not change his ways. Instead of leaving She decided that she would stay knowing how he is, and for the security of certain things. They have a non sexual relationship, she's simply the wife that holds down the household and helps raise my bf 2 kids.
My role as the girlfriend, I have his heart. He loves me, I get all the perks of a loving relationship I get everything that she doesn't. We are even looking to buy a house together.
What's strange is I'm all new to this, and it's just crazy the situation I'm in. But I do care for this man very very much he is just amazing in so many ways.
Sorry if this is confusing. Feel free to ask away! But this is the life I'm in right now and no one knows the true truth.