I think my husband is cheating on me with the neighbor Update 1.
These past few days he's been telling me he's going to the neighbor to help with stuff because our neighbor which happens to be a 27 year old woman with long black hair and a big ass and perfect body asked him to help her because she just moved in and she needs some manly help. First I was like okay no problem, he's just helping the neighbor right?
He's been going there after work these past 2 weeks for 3 hours tops every day and I can't seem to wonder what they're are doing. He'll come home semi dirty smelling like perfume but I guess it could be that she wears strong perfume and that he spends 3 hours there so the smell might stick on his clothes right? He comes home and goes to shower immediately not even making conversation with me, in don't know, maybe its just me. 2 days ago I woke up in the middle of the night to pee and he wasn't in bed which is unusual of him so I thought he might be in the bathroom, so I go there to pee and he wasn't there, I was so sleepy that I didn't think much of it and went back to bed, after 30 mins he came to bed a little sweaty I though maybe he was in our living room which tends to get hot.
He's going to go today after work at her house to "finish helping out" or so he says. I want to sneak up there and find out what this girl needs so much helping with. We have 2 kids a toddler and A 5 month old,I don't want to leave them at home alone. What should I do?
I went to her house after she came home to invite her over tonight for dinner to see the connection she has with my husband and how they act when together. let's see how tonight will go.