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I'm getting turned on from BFing-

Anonymous
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I've been new at breastfeeding, and dd is now 3 weeks old. I'm too ashamed to ask or talk to anyone I know about what I'm going through. Dd is my first child, and before BFing, I loved when hubby played with my boobs during sex.

After the initial awkwardness with getting used to latching, i noticed I was turned on because I'm used to hubby. I feel sick. I started pumping and "the girls" have been off limits during sex. Is this normal? I want to continue BFing but I am disgusted that my mind finds it sexual during precious bonding with the baby.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 29, 2014 at 12:35 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 29, 2014 at 12:36 AM
1 mom liked this

I bottle fed, so I'm no help. Here's a bump for you. 

Angelicembrace
by The Dorkfish on Apr. 29, 2014 at 12:37 AM
Oh boy. Idk..here's a bump
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 29, 2014 at 12:37 AM
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mamadismay
by Bronze Member on Apr. 29, 2014 at 12:37 AM
It shouldn't turn you on. Seek help
LiesLiesLies
by Platinum Member on Apr. 29, 2014 at 12:38 AM
Uhhh....
firespurity
by Ruby Member on Apr. 29, 2014 at 12:38 AM
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Honestly I still let df play with the girls. I get turned on from it. But I have never gotten turned on while breastfeeding my children.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 29, 2014 at 12:39 AM
Apparently it can happen to people. It isn't common, but it isn't rare either.

Have you looked up d mer? That is a physiological condition some women get.
petitekatie
by Gold Member on Apr. 29, 2014 at 12:39 AM
Bump
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 29, 2014 at 12:40 AM
This

Quoting firespurity: Honestly I still let df play with the girls. I get turned on from it. But I have never gotten turned on while breastfeeding my children.
ChrissyReznor
by Platinum Member on Apr. 29, 2014 at 12:40 AM
No
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