I would....That isn't something I could wait on.
lying is never the best way to go if you want to maintain trust in your marriage. this seems like a small thing...would you want him doing the same to you?
besides just being a lie, i would be afraid i would slip up and he would find out anyway. do what you gotta do, but i wouldn't.
maybe if you asked him what he thinks of the idea he would be ok with it? i dunno. i just don't get lying about something like this.
It's your last baby! Just keep it as a surprise if you can't convince him otherwise. It would be a not so great idea to find out and not tell him.
Lying not ok period. Why not talk to him and say you want to know and won't tell him if you know. Or wait its your last.
Quoting Smokeygirl: It sounds like a terrible idea. When you start using a single pronoun for the baby it might get suspicious. I wouldn't do it.
At the end of the day it's your decision whether or not to know the sex. Just explain to him that if he doesn't want to know that's fine, but he can't make your decision for you and you are going to find out.
Then when you go to the scheduled appointment explain this to the tech, and they will tell you without telling your husband.
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