-Has a very hard time controlling his emotions (outbursts of rage/anger)
-Alot of times literally CANNOT be still (say its dinner time or bed time, he says "mommy I CANT calm down". Its not out of defiance at all, its like his little body just truly cant get calm
-Some things make him hysterical, often its a small trigger. His bus driver reprimanded him yesterday, when I tried to talk to ds about it he ran to his room curled up on his bed and was screaming uncontrollably. I had to hold him in my lap until he was ok again(which wasnt until about 20min later) Its almost like he's in a trance when this happens, I dont know how else to explain it.
There are a few other things but these are the big ones. We are working with him and using different teaching methods to give him the tools to help him in controlling his own emotions,etc. Any advice?
Eta: added info from one of my replies to give a better idea of whats going on:
He likes stacking/building things mostly out of random objects. Often when he plays (like with cars) he doesnt "vroom" with them, he takes all of them and lines them up. If he's playing with figurines he'll line them up on a windowsill or something similar. He likes repetative noises/sounds