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Eyes only for one

Anonymous
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If your a man or woman and are married, is it wrong to be attracted to another person? 

No flirting or touching just thinking that the person is in some way cute or sweet? 

Any thoughts on this subject ?

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 30, 2014 at 2:44 PM
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Mrs.Kubalabuku
by Ruby Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 2:44 PM
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It's human nature to notice certain things.  It's not wrong to notice.  It's wrong to act on it.

Chibee
by on Apr. 30, 2014 at 2:45 PM

I tell dh all the time that I find someone cute or sweet.   It's called being human.

armywifey26
by Krissy on Apr. 30, 2014 at 2:45 PM
Just because you are married doesn't mean you're blind.
crysiann
by Platinum Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 2:45 PM
Just because you are married doesn't mean you don't notice when someone is attractive. As long as you don't act on it in any way, there should be no problem.
KikiKia
by Bronze Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 2:46 PM
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I don't think its wrong.  I like looking at eye candy sometimes. :) 

jjames1990
by Platinum Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 2:46 PM
Same here for both of us.

I have a huge crush on a server at the local diner, DH laughs and makes fun of me.

Quoting Chibee:

I tell dh all the time that I find someone cute or sweet.   It's called being human.

CGM2012
by Gold Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 2:46 PM
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No its not wrong. I'm attracted to a lot of people. So is DH. Hell, I point out his celeb crush's when I see them and he does the same for me.

etsmom
by Ruby Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 2:47 PM

You are human and you notice when someone is attractive. That doesn't mean that you are going to act on that attraction. 

outtamymynd
by Ruby Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 2:47 PM
I think it's a natural response. Now acting on it, that's a problem.
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by Anonymous on Apr. 30, 2014 at 2:48 PM
Most people do still look. Not me, I have never looked at another man besides my husband but I know I'm an oddity.
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