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Should I tell her husband she's cheating?

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I know for a fact a girl I know is cheating on her husband. We used to be really close, but we aren't anymore. I'm thinking her husband deserves to know she's not being faithful, Especially considering she's not being "safe" about it. If I was being cheated on, I would want to know.

So, should I tell him?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:04 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:12 PM
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it's none of her/his business to tell me.
Quoting Anonymous: Would you want to know if your husband was cheating on you and a friend knew about it?

Quoting Anonymous: myob
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:12 PM
Funny how you wait until you can do it out of spite.
Either way. I would let him know. Anonymously.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:12 PM
Idk if she has actually caught something, but from the info I found, she isn't using protection.

Quoting Anonymous: The people who know but don't tell are scum. You can actually get in legal trouble if you know and don't tell if the get an std from it if they can prove you knew.
Tuned.Out
by Gold Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:12 PM
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I'll be frank with you. If a friend took it upon themselves to tell me something about my husband/my marriage/what is or isn't going on in it, I would politely tell them to mind their own business. Anything that happens in my marriage is between me and my husband. And what goes on in that marriage is no one else's business.


Quoting Anonymous: Would you want to know if your husband was cheating on you and a friend knew about it?
Quoting Tuned.Out:

I would not. It wouldn't be any of my business what she does/who she does or my place to get involved in their marriage.


PhantomRose88
by Ruby Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:13 PM

Send an anonymous note or something. I would want to know. 

incogNinja
by Whofflรฉ on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:14 PM
I really would not.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:14 PM
I just found out. I had added her as a friend on a different site back when we were close. I think she forgot I was still on there and has been posting about her exploits.

Quoting Anonymous: Funny how you wait until you can do it out of spite.
Either way. I would let him know. Anonymously.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:14 PM

I think people should know.

Icyfrell
by Bronze Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:14 PM

I'd wanna know

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:15 PM

Tread lightly and carefully, I have seen/heard of similar situations and it ends up with cops and a huge mess usually.

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