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Should I tell her husband she's cheating?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
I know for a fact a girl I know is cheating on her husband. We used to be really close, but we aren't anymore. I'm thinking her husband deserves to know she's not being faithful, Especially considering she's not being "safe" about it. If I was being cheated on, I would want to know.

So, should I tell him?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:04 PM
Replies (41-50):
WhiteRose24
by Silver Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:29 PM
Oh ok. Yes I would want to know.

I would print out her post and put it in their mail box with the husband's name if you want to do it anonymously.

Or you can just tell him and show him what she has been posting as proof.

Quoting Anonymous: I just found out about it. We just kind of drifted apart because we are both busy, and don't have as much in common anymore. Back when we were close I added her as a friend on another site. I don't think she remembers we are friends on there and she has recently started posting about her exploits.

Quoting WhiteRose24: You didn't tell him when you two were friends but now that you aren't friends anymore you want to tell him?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:30 PM
Myob
SmallTown_Momma
by Bronze Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:30 PM
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Personally, i would ask him out for a coffee (take your DH/SO) and just sit him down, and explain that you don't want to cause any trouble but that you thought he had a right to know ...and explain what you do know , if he has any questions ..than answer them.

Quoting Anonymous: I would want to know, and would be upset if others knew and didn't tell me that my partner was being unfaithful. However I know not everyone thinks the same way, so I'm trying to get a feel for what other people think is the right thing to do.
Quoting SmallTown_Momma:

Why on earth are you asking us what we should do?

From the sounds of it, you are the type of person that would feel better telling him that his wife is a cheat, so why dont you just listen to your instincts im sure that the husband would be very grateful for it.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:32 PM

Funny, I posted not too long ago about knowing someone was being cheated on. I said it wasn't my business and I was staying out of it and all the hypocrites here said I was a bad person for not telling the person who was being cheated on.

Cmgmqmmom
by Ruby Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:33 PM
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Mind your own business. It doesn't affect you in any way.
msalice_21
by Platinum Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:37 PM

Yeah I would say something. I would want that respect. I wouldnt appreciate being the one being laughed at because everyone knew my SO was sleeping around and I wasnt aware of it.

msalice_21
by Platinum Member on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:38 PM
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 Cafemom is full of hyprocrital bitches.

Quoting Anonymous:

Funny, I posted not too long ago about knowing someone was being cheated on. I said it wasn't my business and I was staying out of it and all the hypocrites here said I was a bad person for not telling the person who was being cheated on.

 

sillytroll
by Teehee on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:40 PM

I'd want to know, but if someone I wasn't that close with came up and told me Dh was cheating, I'd question her motives. I would think she was just starting drama. I'd stay out of it if I were in your shoes.

ninjakids
by Christina on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:40 PM
Catch 22.
Id want to know
However, Ive also been the one to break it to someone.. Put it this way, i almost got a restraining order from the harassment that followed.. By the person who i told.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 30, 2014 at 7:54 PM

So you assume he will tell you? And if he's cheating and you don't know about it its not between you and him its him and you have no idea.

Quoting Tuned.Out:

Where did you read "It's okay for my husband to cheat, as long as no one tells me?" 

I said, it is not anyone's business to tell me what my husband is doing.  That's between me and my husband. Not anyone else.  

Quoting Anonymous:

Wow. So its ok for your DH to cheat as long as no one tells you basically what your saying. As long as you don't know all is good.

Quoting Tuned.Out:

I'll be frank with you. If a friend took it upon themselves to tell me something about my husband/my marriage/what is or isn't going on in it, I would politely tell them to mind their own business. Anything that happens in my marriage is between me and my husband. And what goes on in that marriage is no one else's business.


Quoting Anonymous: Would you want to know if your husband was cheating on you and a friend knew about it?
Quoting Tuned.Out:

I would not. It wouldn't be any of my business what she does/who she does or my place to get involved in their marriage.




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