However, I can't stand parents who are blatantly unfair.
Example: DH had to buy his own first car. It was a beat up cheap truck, because it was all he could afford. However, they provided cars for both of his siblings when they turned 16.
Example: They wouldn't help DH through college in any way. They are helping his sister out with room/board and with paying for classes.
Have you ever experienced this kind of unequal treatment?