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Is this a relationship red flag?!?!?

Anonymous
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I just started dating my new bf a while back. he's a really great guy and very good looking and in great shape, tall, handsome, etc. He has a great job, amazing personality and always makes me laugh. We have been dating for around 7 weeks and we both agreed to take things slow so we haven't slept together yet (we are both coming out of divorces) but I honestly have a lot of feelings for him and could see it going somewhere.  

The other night I came over to his place and he was getting ready while I waited for him in his bedroom while he finished getting ready. He informed me that he was going to use the bathroom and then we could head out. While he was in there I glanced around the room and noticed he had his business clothes out and ready for work the next day. and then I looked next to them and saw these.....

(and yes I did take a picture to show my friends... haha judge away!) --- and for the record these are white.. not grey!


I showed it to a friend who I consider to be a relationship expert and she informed me she thinks its a red flag that he still has those underwear and that it shows that he tries to hold on to things that he should let go of. I know its such a silly thing to get worked up about but I don't understand why he's kept them for so long! He is a business man so he makes plenty of money and can obviously afford new underwear.

I'm not going to end the relationship over it or anything but am just curious to see if people agree with her.

Any thoughts??

Posted by Anonymous on May. 2, 2014 at 1:31 AM
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all2gethernow
by Silver Member on May. 2, 2014 at 1:33 AM
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Seriously??!!
Presley77
by Silver Member on May. 2, 2014 at 1:34 AM
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I would be more concerned about his butt hygiene.
curvygurl1912
by Renee on May. 2, 2014 at 1:34 AM
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Oh ffs
SKM1119
by Gold Member on May. 2, 2014 at 1:34 AM
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Um I think your friend reads too much into things.  However, I think those are freaking gross.  I would question hygiene.

MixedCooke
by Platinum Member on May. 2, 2014 at 1:36 AM
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men like to keep things that are comfortable, so I am sure its more about the comfort than him holding onto anything from a previous relationship.

Blooming_Lotus
by Platinum Member on May. 2, 2014 at 1:36 AM
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I don't agree with her but he would be getting new undies if we ever married. I'd give them to him as a wedding present. LOL!

wulfeyes05
by Ruby Member on May. 2, 2014 at 1:36 AM
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Oh no...old undies...RUUUUUN!!!! (sarcasm)

Hoppers33
by Gold Member on May. 2, 2014 at 1:37 AM
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He's a man...if he's anything like my dh, he wears clothes until they are completely unwearable anymore. Especially socks and underwear.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 2, 2014 at 1:37 AM
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The fact that they are tighty grayies, I'd leave. Lol I can't stand a guy when he wears them. Don't know why. It's just weird to me
csxt99
by Jennifer on May. 2, 2014 at 1:37 AM
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I'm confused. What is wrong with his underwear?  They look discolored, but that doesn't mean they should be thrown out.  They aren't full of holes, just discolored.  I find it far more odd that you feel the need to snoop, take pictures of his underwear, and then share the pictures with friends and strangers. 

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