I just started dating my new bf a while back. he's a really great guy and very good looking and in great shape, tall, handsome, etc. He has a great job, amazing personality and always makes me laugh. We have been dating for around 7 weeks and we both agreed to take things slow so we haven't slept together yet (we are both coming out of divorces) but I honestly have a lot of feelings for him and could see it going somewhere.
The other night I came over to his place and he was getting ready while I waited for him in his bedroom while he finished getting ready. He informed me that he was going to use the bathroom and then we could head out. While he was in there I glanced around the room and noticed he had his business clothes out and ready for work the next day. and then I looked next to them and saw these.....
(and yes I did take a picture to show my friends... haha judge away!) --- and for the record these are white.. not grey!
I showed it to a friend who I consider to be a relationship expert and she informed me she thinks its a red flag that he still has those underwear and that it shows that he tries to hold on to things that he should let go of. I know its such a silly thing to get worked up about but I don't understand why he's kept them for so long! He is a business man so he makes plenty of money and can obviously afford new underwear.
I'm not going to end the relationship over it or anything but am just curious to see if people agree with her.