*For the fucking dense, if I couldn't afford little extras and never got to go out and spend money, I'd consider myself a failure. If I lived with pennies left to my name the day before payday, I'd be ashamed. If I couldn't buy things without worry, I'd be ashamed. If I couldn't save money, I'd be a failure. Get it now?
For the still dense, I work hard to have a good life and be able to pay my bills, clothe my kids, put gas in my car, treat them to family activities and be able to go have fun and make memories without worrying. If you're too stupid and can only fixate on a silly example than you don't get it.