Denying your husband is cruel and grounds for cheating.
Sorry for the series of threads but I'm going crazy confined to this bed.
I read a debate yesterday, about women who deny their husbands sex when they aren't in the mood.
One side of the argument: Marriage doesn't give my husband unlimited access to my body. If I don't desire sex, he doesn't get it and he should respect that.
The other argument was: It is cruel not to meet the sexual needs of your husband and expect him to remain monogamous. I give my husband sex even when I don't necessarily feel like it because I love him.
So ladies, what side of this debate do you fall on?
My sex drive matches my husband's so we don't currently have this issue. However, I struggle with the idea that his desire for sex would override my desire not to have sex.