So me and my mom got into an argument earlier. I was over at her house. My niece (13) was there. I have 3 boys (8, 7 and 3). Well all afternoon my niece had be snotty with my boys. She took my 3 year olds playdoh and through it across the yards. All because he tried to show her his playdoh. She called my 8 year old names. When the boys were inside watching cartoons she took my sons shoes and hid them on him, sat on my 8 year old and wouldn't let him up. He pinched her to get her off him and she screams knock it off or I'm gonna knock the crap out of him. I told her to knock it off and went back outside. 5 minutes later my 8 year old came outside crying. He said my mom told him to leave her alobe and go outside. He went in to grab his drink and my niece came to the door told him to get out, slammed the door in his face and locked it.
When my dh heard he went in there and asked my niece what was up. Told her to never slam a door in his sons face or lock him out. My mom yelled at my dh to shut his mouth that she already dealt with it. Well I went in and she comes in and say's she didn't care for my dh's bull headed attitude. That she won't tollerate him talking to anyone like that. She said she'd never talk to one of my kids like that. I said if they deaerved it you would. I said Julia just doesn't like being called out. She's used to blaming her brother and getting away with stuff. She told me I was wrong and he needed to apologize to her. Should he?