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am I right to be a little upset?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Not completely upset, but just a little enough to shake my head.

There's no set visitations. Ex comes when he wants. Only for about 2 hours, normally on a weekday (meaning ds has to go to bed early for school)..

So ds called him yesterday, left a vm asking if he could come over or if ds could go to his house.

Ex never called back.

Ds is 8.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 4, 2014 at 7:51 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 4, 2014 at 7:55 PM
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Jessy613
by Diamond Member on May. 4, 2014 at 7:57 PM

I'm a little confused..

what's the issue? because he didn't call back?

LyTe684
by on May. 4, 2014 at 7:58 PM
Poor kid. :(
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 4, 2014 at 7:59 PM
Lol yea, but I guess I should add that ds hasnt seen him in almost a month now.

Quoting Jessy613:

I'm a little confused..

what's the issue? because he didn't call back?

Sara-1989
by on May. 4, 2014 at 7:59 PM
I'd never let a man just come and go as he pleases.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 4, 2014 at 8:00 PM
I'm not gonna deny visits, esp when ds wants to see him, when those two hours mean the world to him

Quoting Sara-1989: I'd never let a man just come and go as he pleases.
iLove723_814
by on May. 4, 2014 at 8:02 PM

I would be too...coming and going in a kids life is never right the only one getting hurt is the kid. Its really messed up on his end. 

catcameback
by on May. 4, 2014 at 8:03 PM

It's your own fault.  Get a visitation order.  Do you have a custody order?

frndlyfn
by Gold Member on May. 4, 2014 at 8:04 PM

I would be contacting ex saying you want to set up a formal visitation schedule so that the child can see his dad.  This should hold dad accountable as well for maintaining contact.    Poor boy needs that connection with his dad.

spunky946
by Emerald Member on May. 4, 2014 at 8:05 PM

It sounds like you need a set visitation schedule.

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