Makes sense. I know my dh loves her, but there was no need for me to try and build a stronger relationship even if it was for the kids. I am still glad I tried, but I am staying out of it now.
Quoting Anonymous: my dh didnt talk to his mother for 15 yrs and just has recently started talking to her. I stay out of it.
my dh didnt talk to his mother for 15 yrs and just has recently started talking to her. I stay out of it.
That's what I'm afraid of... Very afraid. I'm thinking I may give her a short trial, but if it's not working she will have to go. She only lives about 45 miles from me.
Quoting jarkrt: No way would I let her stay to "help." She'll be more of a hindrance than a help.
Lol. I told my husband I may just stay in our room with the baby, to "rest and recover".. I don't know if I will be able to deal otherwise.
Quoting BraydensMama163: My mil showed up at my house in the middle of the day after we came home from the hospital with dd. She tried to worm her way into staying with us a few weeks andwhen she said oh brayden is easy. I'll help with the baby and you just deal with the toddler. Piece of cake... Um get real honey.
Thank god when we had the last baby she had moved out of state but she did come up for two days two weeks after he was born. If my sil had not been with her I might have hurt her. Nothing here was good enough for her. The men were repairing a wall and that was 2 loud and giving her a headache and she shouldn't have to deal with that on her vacation.
She's a winner that one. I just hide out with the baby and let my older kids keep her busy.
Glad you have a good mil.. I think that is what I was hoping for when I made all my efforts at building a relationship. I guess we all have a crazy one in the family somewhere
Quoting nopenope666: My mil is awesome, its my mom whos fucking bat shit crazy
Quoting Anonymous: Glad you have a good mil.. I think that is what I was hoping for when I made all my efforts at building a relationship. I guess we all have a crazy one in the family somewhereQuoting nopenope666: My mil is awesome, its my mom whos fucking bat shit crazy
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