Saturday night we had my dh cousin over with her dh and 2 kids for BBQ. I guess I am the non fun mean one. They all had more than couple beers and were feeling good, I can't have but 1-2 beers after 6 month old falls asleep because I'm nursing. Well anyway other kids are 9,9, 11 and 12. I ask them to only eat at table and pick up their mess. Nf hey tried to take every toy or game out possible and I said no put back what they aren't using before getting something else out. My dh goes about how I am the non fun mom. I guess I just feel like I am the one that always has to set the rules. Just a vent.