So when i moved in he didn't bother to tell his ex wife he had a new girlfriend moving in OR that it was me. She had hated me (understandably) since he left her for me and he knew she would be pissed. Not to long before he and i reconciled she and him were talking about getting back together and trying again but he and i started talking and he changed his mind. Did i mention while this was happening, she was living with HER boyfriend and she never told him...they are still together.
He forgot his phone at home yesterday so i answered it not realizing it was her (she was calling from work. Didn't recognize the number)...it took her a total of two seconds on the phone with me to figure out it was me and she lost it. She called my boyfriend on his work.phone absolutely flipping, demanding i either move out or he bring her her son back now and forget about his summer visitation. Obviously, she has no right to do that and she's just making idle threats so my.boyfriend basically told her to pack sand, he's not changing his life to suit her.
She is furious and had called his parents, her parents, his brother and even his ex gfs parents (he grew up next door to these people and is still close.to them) to ask them to "try and talk sense into him". His phone has been ringing nonstop since yesterday. Everyone has a different opinion. Everyone feels the need to weigh in. Its.driving me loony.
Why oh why does everyone think their opinion matters to us? I am 36 yrs.old. He is 33. We are clearly adults who are perfectly capable of.making our own decisions. Thank GOD for his Mom and step dad. They love me and have been totally supportive. His Mom told the ex wife that she would just have to accept me in the kids lives because it was her sons choice who to be with, just as its not his choice who SHE chooses to be with.
Anyway. This is mostly just a vent. I'm frustrated and sick of other people thinking they have a say in OUR relationship. My boyfriend is now only answering his.phone for me, his Mom and step dad and select friends til this storm.blows.over.