I don't always wear my wedding bands (personal choice and reasons) and they stay in a little box on my dresser when I am not wearing them. My children are not allowed into my room without me being there, nor are they allowed to touch things. At some point my six year old went into my room, without me knowing, either last night or this morning, got my wedding rings and took them to school. They're way to big for her fingers so I know she wasn't wearing them, plus I would of probably noticed if she was. I believe she had put them in her pocket. I didn't know she had taken them until I picked her up from school this afternoon and she handed me my band. After the initial shock and yelling about her taking them to school, I asked where the other ring was. She shrugged and said "Somebody lost it, I dunno". I am still pissed off. I called the school and emailed her teacher, letting them know to look for it but I know that it's gone.
She's never taken something like this before but I do have problems with her. She just doesn't care about anyone's things or anybody in general. She still hasn't apologized even after having two of her prized posessoins taken from her (she didn't even blink an eye) and has been grounded for the next 2 weeks (no playing with friends, no tv, no dessert after dinner, and she has to do extra chores for an hour when she gets home from school). No punishment phases her though. I can and do enforce punishments and she doesn't care.
I am just furious and upset and have no idea what to do.