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My niece is having an abortion and I'm Glad

Posted by on May. 9, 2014 at 2:09 PM
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She had sex with her boyfriend and she is on birth control. She is only 16.

She has no way to pay for a child and she wants to have a good future. The guy is 16 too.

She knew her mom would help her but mom was not doing it all for her either.

I feel bad that she is having a medical procedure done and it will be painful. I wish her birth control hadn't failed, (she was on the shot).

But I am glad she is doing the responsible thing. And that she made the decision that is right for her. She goes in on Tuesday.
by on May. 9, 2014 at 2:09 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on May. 9, 2014 at 2:11 PM
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Just make sure she has someone to talk to completely and honestly the emotional turmoil allot of women go through lasts a lifetime. Out of the 22 women I know that have had abortions only 3 are ok emotionally from it.

Rhyinns.Mommy
by Silver Member on May. 9, 2014 at 2:11 PM
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It's good she's doing what feels right for her. :) I hope it's not too bad. Good luck on Tuesday. :)
rebeccarae
by on May. 9, 2014 at 2:12 PM
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I hope she continues to feel that it was the right choice, and maybe she can talk to her doctor about a new method of BC.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 9, 2014 at 2:12 PM
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Her baby will die that day and mine will be born. Kinda sad to think of it that way. But to each their own.
5kidsILove
by on May. 9, 2014 at 2:12 PM
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I told her I am always here for her if she wants to talk

Quoting Anonymous:

Just make sure she has someone to talk to completely and honestly the emotional turmoil allot of women go through lasts a lifetime. Out of the 22 women I know that have had abortions only 3 are ok emotionally from it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on May. 9, 2014 at 2:12 PM
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Horrible. Poor baby. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on May. 9, 2014 at 2:14 PM
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Since when is murder a medical procedure?

suzanneyea
by Ruby Member on May. 9, 2014 at 2:14 PM
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Seems like the best choice for all involved.

L202M
by on May. 9, 2014 at 2:17 PM
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You say it will be painful...she's being put under...I hope? Do they even still do it while you're awake anymore?   If you're talking about the cramping after, then it may not be that painful for her.  Not everyone has bad pain afterwards.


pinkfairy0206
by on May. 9, 2014 at 2:18 PM
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Oh Lord here we go!

Quoting Anonymous:

Since when is murder a medical procedure?

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