Since DD is in that group, tomorrow morning I will be asking her teacher why this was never mentioned to me when I asked what help was available for my DD.
I will be nice and respectful when I ask about it.
Any suggestions on how I can calmly address this? Because I was pretty pissed when DH came home from the park after talking to the dad of one of DDs classmates who is getting this special tutoring.
I am seriously considering pulling her out of this school and sending her somewhere else...
Update: Spoke with her teacher this afternoon at pick up. The tutoring is reserved for children who do not have parental support. Her teacher told me that she knows I spend 3 to 4 hours a day tutoring her and she can tell that my DD is doing much better because of my help. She is not in danger of not passing kindergarten. She feels that if we keep doing what we are doing in addition to summer school she will be fine for first grade. Thank you to the moms who genuinely tried to give me suggestions on how to bring this up with her teacher. My husband and I greatly appreciate your input! Thank you.