DH tries to make up for SS mom being a POS by babying SS. He rarely ever disciplines SS and doesn't follow through with the discipline I set. Granted DH is not home often.
Ss is somewhat special needs. We aren't exsctly sure what his true DX is since we keep getting different DXs. But he is in therapy.
He is very very smart. Very very very smart. And very manipulative. Even his therapist say he is manipulative.
So yesterday DH and SS were loading the car for us to take SS to his moms and to go to my moms house. I was feeding our baby.
DH asked SS to do something and they were arguing and SS started pitching a fit. DH walked away from him. Told him to calm down and do what he was told.
DH comes in the house and we were talking about what else needed to go in the car. SS walks in with DHs work tablet. Shattered. He had a giant smile on his face.
First Ss tried to say he accidentally dropped it. But the screen was shattered in 3 places. You could clearly see 3 points of impact
When DH started questioning him the truth came out. SS should have never had it in the first place. It was in the case and in DHs briefcase. Ss had no reason to take it out. He's not allowed to play with it and knows it.
He took it out of the briefcase, out of the protective case and smashed it with a rock. He still had the rock in his pocket,
DH yelled at him a lot.
Then refused to talk to him.
He backed all of his stuff into bags and loaded them into the van. SS was asking him the whole time what he was doing but DH didn't say a word.
We took SS to his moms and DH got all of Ss stuff out and told his ex she was going to keep him indefinitely. She said she couldn't. DH got even more mad. She said that she wanted him for only a few hours and would bring him back and if we refused to take him she would call defac to get him.
So she brought him back last night. DH still hasn't said a word to SS.
SS is beig very sweet and very nice to me for once. Normally he is very mean and hits and screams at me.
I don't know why DH is surprised by this. This is not the first time he has done something like this but it is the first time he has done something to DH.
Idk what he plans on doing from here but he was looking online at group homes.