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Really!?! You are going to walk away from kids after 14 yrs?

Anonymous
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My DH and I have decided to get divorced. We have 5 kids. The 2 older ones are mine from a previous marriage. Their Father has never been involved in their lives by choice. They are 15 and 17. DH has been their Father. He said last night he doesn't want yi see them or spend time with them only his 3. This is ridiculous and not something I would expect. They adore him and are going to be crushed. What do I say to them? I will add he has always been a great Dad to them. Once we seperated for six months when they were younger and he asked for them every weekend and paid child support for them without being asked to.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 13, 2014 at 11:53 AM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 13, 2014 at 11:53 AM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 13, 2014 at 11:53 AM
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TheFairestOne
by Bronze Member on May. 13, 2014 at 11:55 AM

They are old enough to understand that dh isn't their bio dad.

What a jerk though.

First_One_8_18
by Gold Member on May. 13, 2014 at 11:55 AM
What a dick.
Lostinindy
by Gold Member on May. 13, 2014 at 11:56 AM
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Tell the selfish ass he can tell them. What a loser.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 13, 2014 at 11:57 AM
Sadly this is not uncommon in blended families.
CGM2012
by Gold Member on May. 13, 2014 at 11:57 AM

Hopefully he changes his mind. Let him talk to them about it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 13, 2014 at 11:57 AM

He's not their Dad and shouldn't be forced to have a relationship with them.

You can tell them that since he isn't Stepdad anymore they won't see him.

ProudMommy_1034
by 2lilboogers on May. 13, 2014 at 11:58 AM
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The truth . As sad as it is he doesn't owe them shit .
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Police on May. 13, 2014 at 11:58 AM
He's an asshole. But, I don't think they're is much you cam so.
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