My DH and I have decided to get divorced. We have 5 kids. The 2 older ones are mine from a previous marriage. Their Father has never been involved in their lives by choice. They are 15 and 17. DH has been their Father. He said last night he doesn't want yi see them or spend time with them only his 3. This is ridiculous and not something I would expect. They adore him and are going to be crushed. What do I say to them? I will add he has always been a great Dad to them. Once we seperated for six months when they were younger and he asked for them every weekend and paid child support for them without being asked to.