Dd is aware she is small, yes she is in second grade and yes she is the same size as her four year old sister.
Yes she really is 8, so when you ask her don't look at me like she is lying to you. No i don't feel the need to discuss her medical history with random strangers. But if you must know, yes something is wrong, no i don't know what yet, she has not grown since she was five, and yes we are seeing drs about it.
Do people not realize they are being rude, when they point this out? Strangers and family included. To me is like me asking someone why their kid is fat or if they are taking their kid to the Dr for their special needs or something. Its rude and hurts DD feelings.