My daughter hit my autistic son and told him she hates him :(
However, her being here has thrown off his routine completely and he's been melting down and upset more. This morning, when she was in "his" chair, he bit her so hard on the shoulder he broke the skin. She punched him in the face, and he has a rapidly forming black eye. She was also yelling "I f-cking hate you" as he laid there crying.
I ran downstairs freaking out, trying to console both of them and calm them down. I turned to ask what the hell she was thinking hitting him so hard, and she said "what else is new, take his f-cking side again when he's a violent little *sshole", went upstairs, got her things and left. She hasn't answered the phone since.
I'm so devastated and upset :( my son keeps crying for her and melting down, and I'm so anxious that she's driving in her angry and worked up state. I wish she hadn't left so we could have resolved this :(