Daughter staying in a hotel because I won't let her sleep with her boyfriend??
She's right. I have younger kids and it's entirely inappropriate. They don't know my older daughter lived with her boyfriend and were so excited about "sister sleepovers" in her room. Additionally, my elderly mother lives with us and is going to flip when she hears about this.
As well, the hotel is 25 minutes from our house, in the city, so this is going to cut into our visit time as well and I'm already picturing them cutting out of family visiting or leaving early to go out in the city.
I asked her to reconsider and she laughed :( and said "no, mom, I think Marc and I will be more comfortable together there, let's not talk about this again". I started to say "but-" and said sounded angry and said "talk to you later" and hung up.
Does anyone have any advice? I don't know what to do here to keep everyone happy.