If you going to treat them like shit . My neighbor does shit like buy her son mc Donald's and let them eat it in front of the other kids and don't buy them anything . These kids mother is dead , why would she marry their father to treat them bad and what type of man would allow this . It's heartbreaking to see these kids faces when she do shit like this . I'm the type of person that will not even let my children have a ice cream if I don't have enough for every kids that's outside playing . This really upsets me . What do you ladies think about this situation .