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I can not belive this is the judges ruling!! **update**

Anonymous
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So Dh and his ex went to court last week, They were both going for primary custody with the other parent having basic EOWE custody.. well the judge handed down today!

DH recived FULL LEGAL AND PHYSICAL CUSTODY! his ex recived everyother Sunday from 10am- 6pm and every other x-mas/ thanksgiving day! and she is allowed to call every week on Wednes day at 6!

Thats IT!

I have no idea how this happened!! Im just stunned!

eta: there was nothing in the ex's past that I know about that would have effected this verdict, and they only live liek 15 miles apart?!?!?!

**UPDATE**

I ment to update earilier but go busy.. here it is..

BM had her first visit with SD on Sunday. She was crying saying that she wanted her more. Dh assured her they would work on it... I was feeling SOO bad for her!

and then SD got home at 6.... She walked in the house sat down and started in.... telling us what BM had told her to tell him

"Its not fair that mom only gets me for 8 hours"

"Mom is better than just 8 hours she should have me more"

"It wasnt even worth going, unless I can spend the night..."

Dh assured SD that we would work on it.. on there phone call Wednesday night BM spent most of the call with Dh.. trying to talk him into more time..

dh had planned on giving her extra time this weekend.. but now he isnt sure ... Im just REALLY trying to stay out of it...

Posted by Anonymous on May. 14, 2014 at 8:04 PM
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ER-momma
by LintLicker on May. 14, 2014 at 8:06 PM
Ouch...wonder how she's taking it. What all she's telling her friends/family. I wanna be a fly on the wall in her house right now lol
mistie900
by Gold Member on May. 14, 2014 at 8:07 PM
Does she make a lot less money than him? That's the only other reason (besides being a crappy mom or abusive) I can think of that this would happen.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 14, 2014 at 8:07 PM
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 I have no idea! Im seriously shocked that it happened like this!

Quoting ER-momma: Ouch...wonder how she's taking it. What all she's telling her friends/family. I wanna be a fly on the wall in her house right now lol

 

kdjdod081013
by Ruby Member on May. 14, 2014 at 8:07 PM
Damn. I got nothin'.
jabs54
by Bronze Member on May. 14, 2014 at 8:07 PM
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I hope this is best for THE CHILDREN!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 14, 2014 at 8:08 PM

 Im not sure about that...I dont think so..

Quoting mistie900: Does she make a lot less money than him? That's the only other reason (besides being a crappy mom or abusive) I can think of that this would happen.

 

Hubris_Huntsman
by Platinum Member on May. 14, 2014 at 8:08 PM
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Why didn't they want 50/50?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 14, 2014 at 8:08 PM
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If she's a good mother, that really sucks for her. I bet she's heartbroken.
Lostinindy
by Gold Member on May. 14, 2014 at 8:09 PM
Is she a crappy mom?
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Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on May. 14, 2014 at 8:09 PM
I hope the judge decided based on what's best for the kids.
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