I can not belive this is the judges ruling!! **update**
So Dh and his ex went to court last week, They were both going for primary custody with the other parent having basic EOWE custody.. well the judge handed down today!
DH recived FULL LEGAL AND PHYSICAL CUSTODY! his ex recived everyother Sunday from 10am- 6pm and every other x-mas/ thanksgiving day! and she is allowed to call every week on Wednes day at 6!
I have no idea how this happened!! Im just stunned!
eta: there was nothing in the ex's past that I know about that would have effected this verdict, and they only live liek 15 miles apart?!?!?!
I ment to update earilier but go busy.. here it is..
BM had her first visit with SD on Sunday. She was crying saying that she wanted her more. Dh assured her they would work on it... I was feeling SOO bad for her!
and then SD got home at 6.... She walked in the house sat down and started in.... telling us what BM had told her to tell him
"Its not fair that mom only gets me for 8 hours"
"Mom is better than just 8 hours she should have me more"
"It wasnt even worth going, unless I can spend the night..."
Dh assured SD that we would work on it.. on there phone call Wednesday night BM spent most of the call with Dh.. trying to talk him into more time..
dh had planned on giving her extra time this weekend.. but now he isnt sure ... Im just REALLY trying to stay out of it...