Since then I have decided he can handle his own fucking relationship with his kid. I don't remind him to call, I don't remind him to ask about important things or to email SS' s teacher, or to do his homework with him when he's here. He's dropping the ball all over the place and although I feel bad for SS, I feel like if DH can't be bothered to take care of his relationship with me then I'm not going to bust my as taking care of his relationship with his son. I also don't remind him to call his mom or Siblings either do they are getting ticked at him for ignoring them. I'm especially not going to help him with this stuff anymore since all I ever got was a bad attitude from him when I reminded him.