I have three kids with my ex. They live with me. He gets them Tuesday nights 4:00-7:30ish. And every other weekend Friday 4:00-Sunday 7:30ish...
******they are in school mon-fri from 8-3
everyone says I'm dumb for not asking for child support...why would I?
When dh and I split up, we figured he would have to pay me about. $800 a month. I do not, and never have spent $800 on my kids in a month.
He has our kids almost just as much as I do. He buys them things when he has them. I do when I have them. He makes almost 100,000 a year. I make 52, 000 a year, I don't feel the need for him to support ME. He supports our kids when they're with him & I support the, when they're with me!
A friend if mine gets $375 a month for 1 kid. The dad gets the kid almost 50/50 why on earth does he need to help pay his exes rent???
if your having a kid, you need to be able to support them no matter what. Damn people, why should your EX have to pay your bills..
I guess I just don't get it...